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Four Weeks Later

First of all, I want everyone to know that updating my blog has been on my to-do list for a couple of weeks now 🙂 Somehow, it keeps getting moved to the bottom of the list!

I have to apologize because this post is going to be kind of haphazard. There are several things I want to write about, but they aren’t all related and I just don’t have time right now to create smooth transitional paragraphs. Ha!

First of all…here are things I love about Colorado, in no particular order except as they occur to me at this moment:

1. The radio stations here are 100 times better than in Birmingham (sorry guys). I love, love, love the Christian radio station here (K Love). In the early days after Sarah was born, when I felt overwhelmed, just listening to their music always improved my outlook and mood. There’s also a great country station out here that Tim just found for me. It’s called God’s Country, and it plays all country music, but not the songs about cheating on your wife or drinking beer, etc. Basically, it’s family-friendly country music.

2. The landscape here is breathtaking. I love driving down the highway and seeing the Rockies in the distance. It’s a daily reminder of how BIG our God is and how small we are, yet how much He loves His creation. I also love the wide open spaces here where we live, on the plains. You can see so many stars at night. I wonder if I will ever get tired of just taking in the scenery here.

3. I love being able to walk around our small town. We walk to the post office almost daily (we don’t get mail delivered at our house). And we walk to the library. There are many small stores about a block away from our house and also a playground.

4. The area where we live is largely agricultural. Everywhere you go there is a field of corn ready for harvest, or a field that has just been harvested. There are sheep farms, dairy farms, and lots of cattle and horses. There are horses right next to Naomi’s school. Driving down the road you can see people riding horses in pastures; in the Pawnee National Grasslands you can see antelope.  Many people here have backyard chickens. Last night a lady from our church brought our family a case of farm-fresh eggs…from her niece’s farm! We have eaten at backyard barbeques where the hamburgers came from cows that used to roam on that same ranch.

Even though our family doesn’t even have a vegetable garden yet, we are daily surrounded by reminders of how human life is connected to and depends on the land. For most of my life I have largely been around people who work in offices or buildings. There’s nothing wrong with that; we need business people. But everybody, regardless of profession, depends on the resources of the land.

5. Tim’s flexible schedule! I love having him work at home, or next door at the church. He takes Naomi to the bus stop every morning. I can’t explain how helpful that is to a new mom. If I’m nursing Sarah and Rachel has to go to the potty, I can send her downstairs to Tim and have him help her.  (I am trying to get her to go by herself, but she is resisting it for some reason.) I enjoy walking to pick up Naomi from the bus stop in the afternoon, but if I can’t for some reason, Tim is usually able to take a break and go get her. He comes up from his office to have lunch with us and will often put Rachel down for her nap after lunch. He does ALL the grocery shopping (go ahead and be jealous, moms). And…since his commute is a short walk up the stairs, he cooks and prepares dinner every night. I know how blessed I am to have this arrangement and I am not taking it for granted. Most moms don’t have this kind of convenient schedule for their husband. We didn’t have it in Alabama, and we probably won’t have it permanently here. Things will get busier. But, for now, I am extremely thankful for having so much support and help from Tim during this transitional time.

Now, here are things I miss about Alabama:

1. Our friends and my kids’ friends. 🙁 I pray that Naomi and Rachel and one day Sarah will make friendships here that are as good and wholesome as the ones we left behind. We are blessed that, because of moving to a pastorate, we also moved into an automatic community of support and the kids had new friend in the church from day one. However, it will take time to develop those friendships into close relationships.

2. Football game parties…Thanks to ESPN and Dish TV we get to watch most UA games, but we watch them alone (except when we have family visiting!). It’s also weird to not automatically schedule church events around the games. I remember last year, our church had a fall festival on a UA game day because it couldn’t be helped. However, we showed the game on the TV in the sanctuary!! On a similar note, it’s strange to go to church on Sunday mornings and not run into any disappointed Auburn fans (ha!).

3. Usually I don’t pay attention to my accent, but every now and then I will be talking to someone here and I will become extremely self-conscious, something that never happened back home.

4. I miss being a half-day’s drive from the beach.

5. I MISS TACO CASA!!

I am going to consider these lists works-in-progress! Now, off to eat some lunch before Sarah wakes up.

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Life Out Here

We are all in Ault now! The girls and I enjoyed our week of rest at my parents’ house but we are very happy to be at home with Tim and the cats again.

Some brief pregnancy updates: Sarah is doing great. I have had my first appointment with my midwife and been very pleased. Latest ultrasound shows a very healthy baby still on the large size. I have an increased amniotic fluid level, and no one really knows why. Basically, the extra fluid + large baby means I look huge! I have 3.5 weeks left until my due date…maybe she will have mercy on me and come a little early 🙂 She is really kicking me in the ribs now!

The kids are adjusting well to the move. They like the house and are excited about the baby and all the baby things we are finally setting up. There is a playground about two blocks away from our house that we visited for the first time today. And, it is not too hot to play on it!! The weather here does get hot in the afternoon, but unlike in Birmingham, it is not hot in the evenings or mornings. And there’s a nice breeze most of the time, so even if you are outside in the afternoon, if you are in the shade, it’s fine. And guess what…I can walk from my car to a store without my clothes sticking to me!

I am looking forward to this weekend. It’s Tim’s first Sunday of preaching, and there is also a town fall festival going on. Our church is having its service in the park Sunday morning as part of the festival.

On the way home from the playground tonight, I ran into a family who lives about a block down the street from us. They have a five-year-old girl and the mom is expecting a baby next week. I am hoping we have found some nearby playmates!

Colorado is beautiful and I will try to get some pictures up here or on Facebook soon.

I am missing everyone back home. I’m sure that as the days go on and I (finally) finish all the unpacking and have less to keep me occupied, the homesickness will hit harder. But throughout this whole move, I have felt God’s hand on my family and I am confident we are where we need to be, and I am excited to see how this adventure is going to turn out.

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I have a midwife!

Well ladies…because I assume most of you reading are ladies…I am super excited about having finally lined up prenatal/labor & delivery care in Colorado.  A lot of the places I called were not taking new patients, so I was getting pretty stressed. Yesterday, the last practice I called had an opening, and they were able to get me an appointment for 2 days after I arrive. The practice has an OBGYN and 3 midwives, and since the doctor was not taking new patients, I am now a patient of midwives.

I have never used a midwife, mostly because it’s just not very common (or even LEGAL) down here in Alabama! However, from what I understand from my visit to Colorado and speaking to people who live there, about half of pregnant women use midwives there. And the midwives practice under an OBGYN and deliver in hospitals, where you can have all your usual medications (I specifically asked about epidurals!) and where a doctor is available if you need any type of emergency surgery.  And the midwife stays with you during your entire labor! I love Alabama dearly, but I have to say that on the pro/con list I am putting “birth options” on Colorado’s “pro” side.

So…I am wondering if any of you have ever used a midwife, and, if so, how did it go? And if you haven’t used one, have you ever considered it?

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GRITS goes to Colorado

I have not posted in a long time, not because I didn’t have anything I wanted to write about, but because I was waiting for the right time (as in, the time approved by my darling hubby) to make our big news publicly known–We are moving to Ault, CO!!

Tim has accepted a job as the pastor of two small rural churches in a beautiful area of Colorado. We are leaving in two phases–Tim is leaving with the U-haul, cats, and fish at the end of July, and the kids and I are flying up to meet him Aug. 3. Yes, this is 4 weeks and 1 day before baby Sarah is due. Let’s all pray she gives her mama at least a few weeks to set up the house before she decides she wants to see everything for herself.

We have been praying and discussing this job possibility for months and feel it is the right place for our family to go. However, that doesn’t mean that there are many questions bouncing around in my head!

1. How will the kids adjust to such a different culture and being so far away from family?

2. Will Sarah ever have a Southern accent? Will Naomi & Rachel lose theirs? (I am refusing to lose mine.)

3. Can I drive in snow???

4. What is it like being a pastor’s wife?

5. What’s it like in a culture where there is only one evangelical church in town, instead of one or two on every corner?

6. Do Alabama’s football games get broadcasted in Colorado?

7. Who is going to send me a box of Krispy Kreme every month? 🙂

I am going to miss all of our friends and family here in Alabama so very much.  God has truly blessed me with a great group of friends, neighbors, and fellow moms. I am very thankful for modern technology that lets us all stay in touch, but it still will not be the same as just walking across the backyard for a playdate.

I think about families who moved across the country, or across the ocean, before there were cars or even trains. Women who would leave with their husbands and children, knowing they would probably never see their extended families again. And missionaries, who give up their own comfort to pursue unreached people groups across the globe, maybe staying in the same area, but maybe moving from continent to continent, bringing the Gospel.  In light of these comparisons, moving to Ault (a 22-hour drive) doesn’t seem so huge. But I know it will still be probably the biggest adjustment in my life so far, and definitely in my children’s lives!

I am very excited about starting this new adventure, and I expect I will have much on my heart and mind in the coming weeks and months to fill this blog…if I also have the time to write it all down!